Be glad you have an older sibbling. Trust me. It would kind of get boring if you did no t have any older or youger sibbligs.
trust me i know because i am an only child.
Thanks
n/a 01/22/09 05:40 PM CST
Hey! I know how you feel. Sometimes siblings can be just wild, annoying, and definately embarressing, but you have to remember that they are your sibling, younger or older, you need to be and example and help keep eachother in check. There will never be another them, so make the time you have with them the best. Sometimes parents are unfair, and people out there do judge you by the people your with, but you have to remember that they are people with an oppinoin, that doesn't matter. The only thing is that you are pleasing God and that YOU can be strong enough to block out the worldly voices that are tempting you and judging you. PRAY TO GOD! keep yourself in check before you keep others in check and everything will seem a whole lot better!
hope that helped! (at least a little)
~Anonumys
Aaron 01/20/09 07:49 PM CST
No one can tell you exactly how to treat your sister other than with love and respect(1 Corinthians 13, Mark 12:31). But love doesn't just accept everything the way it is, understand? Ephesians 4:15 "...speaking the truth in love..." If your sibilings are offending you and sinning against you go to them and tell them that what they do, hurts you, and causes division between you all. Matthew 18:15, but do this only after having prayed to GOD and examining yourself to see that you are not blinded by the deceitfulness of sin Matthew 7:1-5, Hebrews 4:13. If you have sinned against your sibilings confess it to GOD and he will forgive you 1 John 1, then go to your sibilings and ask for forgiveness and forgive them of all their sins against you, Matthew 18:22. You may not want to hear it but, your annoying your sister so that she gets mad at you and gets in trouble is a sin, but it can be forgiven, if you repent of it. Remember James 1, every trial is an opportunity to bear fruit(John 15, Galatians 5) and an opportunity to grow in your walk with GOD.
HOPE THIS HELPED
Galatians 4:16
n/a 01/18/09 05:12 PM CST
i am the youngest of 3 kids. i have an oldr brother and a sister who is also oldr than me but younger than my brother. i dnt know how 2 deal with my sis bcuz whenever we go out in public ppl always stare at her and its really embarrasing to me and i think it makes me look bad. and the way she dresses bothers me because its not like i do and its not as flattering as my style is. also sumtimes she overdoes her make up but if i do that i get in trouble but she dsnt and i think thats unfair. and even tho she trys 2 b nice 2 me i sometimes annoy her on purpose just because then she gets mad at me and gets in trouble. is that mean or is it just a sibling problem? sumtimes i rlly wish shed just move out cuz then i wldnt have 2 deal with her. what do u think?